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Today, I did something that made me uncomfortable — and instead of reacting the way I normally would, I chose a different response. I shared some information with my team. Shortly after, a team lead asked where I got the information from. I told her it came from a combination of research and my experience…
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(A reflection on desire, discernment, and self-trust) Lately, I’ve been sitting with a conversation I’ve been having with myself. There’s someone I reconnected with online. We’ve never met in person. We’ve never gone on dates. We simply matched on a dating app and have had conversations here and there. And a part of me wants…
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(A reflection on relationships, healing, and self-acceptance) Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about relationships and how judgment shows up—especially toward women. I’ve watched videos like the “pop the balloon” dating clips, both the women’s and men’s editions. What stood out to me was how judgmental the conversations often become, particularly when men are choosing…
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I recently had a virtual interview for a job I really want. As I prepared for it, I found myself becoming unexpectedly self-conscious about the tattoo on my hand. I started to panic thinking about how to cover it, what makeup might work, how I should hold my hand during the interview, all of it.…
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It’s important to be intentional about the change you want to see and the person you want to become. Writing your goals down is good but without action, they fade. Over time, they become out of sight and out of mind. The other day, I started cleaning out my closet. It quickly became overwhelming, so…
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Allowing myself to be seen
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“One of the most profound things I’ve ever heard—and truly received—was this: You’re not obligated. As I reflected on my life, I realized how much power those words hold. You’re not obligated to show up for people who don’t show up for you. You’re not obligated to apologize when you haven’t done wrong. You’re not…
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This space was created as a place for reflection, growth, and honest conversations about becoming. Here, I’ll be sharing lessons I’m learning in real time—about boundaries, self-leadership, healing, and choosing myself with intention. This isn’t about having it all figured out; it’s about showing up, learning, and growing one step at a time. I’m glad…
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I have been trying to be intentional about keeping promises to may self to strengthen trust, appreciation etc,. Recently I found my self laying in the bed negating going to the Gym, do I feel like it or not, well if I don’t go I can get breakfast, or go tomorrow. Now at this point…
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Sometimes we can become over whelmed with life and work for various reasons lack of support, unable to let go of control and so much more. But God is a Good God a Great Father no matter where you are in your Faith Believe that he is who he is and that he Got You.…

